Men are not like women. Yes, I know that this is stunning news.
Alert the media! It's true though; men are different from women
in more ways than one would normally think. Due to their
differences they are more vulnerable to some serious side
effects of depression. 'Vulnerable' isn't a word that's often
associated with males and that's part of the problem.
Men, as a rule, do not talk about their feelings. They don't
like to be thought of as vulnerable, weak, in need of help, or
fragile. A man is much less likely to confide in a friend, a
co-worker, spouse or medical professional that they are feeling
depressed. Depression affects men as well as women, yet the
medical profession sees much fewer men than women because men do
not seek help for this condition as much as their female
counterparts do.
Men feel the need to be powerful, in control, competitive and
often neglect their mental health in the process of being
'manly'. Men have traditionally had the role of being tough and
self-reliant, and sometimes the women in their lives hold that
same view of the male role. A man wanting to talk about his
feelings of vulnerability and fragility can be taken as a sign
of weakness to some women and this can result in the loss of a
relationship.
Because men are not inclined to believe they need help and think
that it's a sign of virility that they can handle whatever life
throws their way--they are not often aware of the symptoms of
depression. Instead of seeking help, men may try to compensate
for their feelings of depression by increasing alcohol
consumption or using drugs to mask their pain. This can result
in risky behavior. Some will spend more time at work and less
time at home, leading to problems in relationships. If you're
suffering from depression you may be underperforming at work,
feel less likely to talk than usual, you feel irritable, feel
achy and you are worrying more and more about things in your
life.
Physical problems, such as erectile dysfunction can result in
depression in men. Occasionally depression can cause sexual
problems, but the good news is that there are many treatments
available to help with both.
Men should know that depression can affect them as well as women
and need to know the signs:
*Feelings of hopelessness
*Loss of appetite
*Anxiety
*Loss of sex drive
*Trouble concentrating
*Loss of energy
*No desire to maintain personal hygiene
*Losing interest in people or activities
If you're experiencing any of these symptoms it's ok to talk to
your doctor. You're not superman. Asking for help doesn't make
you weak.
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About the author:
Frans Nieuwenhuis is the author of this article. For more
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